What is a good father in our understanding? I'm not asking this question by accident. In general, of course, it would be right to talk about a good mother and what she should be like, but first I still want to open up the topic of fathers. We often complain that our husbands are bad fathers, and we're often right, but I've come across the problem that quite a few moms don't exactly imagine what a good father should be like. So, what kind of a good father is he?
This article is very subjective and contains only my objective opinion. I do not pretend to be the truth, and I fully admit that someone may have a completely different point of view. By the way, which I would be very interested to hear. So, what kind of a good father is he? I think he's like my husband is to his children.
This is the kind of father who worries about his children. He worries not about decrees and "valuable instructions", but about action. He goes to school and is interested in the progress of the children himself. He talks to teachers and the principal, clarifies what needs to be paid attention to, and even helps with something at the school where his children study.
A good father participates in the lives of his children. He writes them down and takes them to sections or all kinds of clubs, attends competitions or Olympiads, and is interested in the children's friends and hobbies. He necessarily does something with them together, or at least from time to time conducts preventive conversations not in the form of mournful moral monologues, but in the form of lively interesting conversations.
He punishes children if they deserve it. Not with a belt and beatings, although sometimes a slap is needed. Yes, I am for corporal punishment. Just don't confuse a slap on the palm and a beating to a pulp. Don't go to extremes.But that's not what we're talking about right now. Yes, a good father knows how to punish his children.
A good father knows how to encourage his children and does it with great pleasure. He encourages them with any kind of encouragement available, forgive the tautology. Moreover, encouragement is not the fulfillment of one's long-standing promises, but something that was not intended in the plans before the child did something well or when about this matter (assignment) There was a speech.
A good dad keeps his promises. If you've already promised something, then no football match or inviting friends to a pub will prevent you from fulfilling your promise. And anyway, a good dad doesn't prefer beer, friends, or football to his kids. And if the pope refuses to do something or fulfill it, or even promise to fulfill it, then he must explain in a calm way why it cannot be done.
A good dad worries about the health of his children. He takes them to the hospital, takes their temperature if necessary, buys medicines and knows how to give the drug to the child himself. A good dad knows how to provide first aid for very high fever, fractures and other injuries and emergencies. A good dad will always check if his children are asleep before going to bed.
A good dad will never make scandals with his mom in front of the kids. He will not insult his mother in front of the children or allow the children to do what their mother forbade. Any parenting policy is initially coordinated with the mother and is never done in front of the children.
A good dad always takes his kids to the park or into the woods without a bottle of alcohol. In the park or in the woods or by the sea, he plays with the children or does something else with them. And of course, any good dad always has his flaws. ebiteua.com
This article is very subjective and contains only my objective opinion. I do not pretend to be the truth, and I fully admit that someone may have a completely different point of view. By the way, which I would be very interested to hear. So, what kind of a good father is he? I think he's like my husband is to his children.
This is the kind of father who worries about his children. He worries not about decrees and "valuable instructions", but about action. He goes to school and is interested in the progress of the children himself. He talks to teachers and the principal, clarifies what needs to be paid attention to, and even helps with something at the school where his children study.
A good father participates in the lives of his children. He writes them down and takes them to sections or all kinds of clubs, attends competitions or Olympiads, and is interested in the children's friends and hobbies. He necessarily does something with them together, or at least from time to time conducts preventive conversations not in the form of mournful moral monologues, but in the form of lively interesting conversations.
He punishes children if they deserve it. Not with a belt and beatings, although sometimes a slap is needed. Yes, I am for corporal punishment. Just don't confuse a slap on the palm and a beating to a pulp. Don't go to extremes.But that's not what we're talking about right now. Yes, a good father knows how to punish his children.
A good father knows how to encourage his children and does it with great pleasure. He encourages them with any kind of encouragement available, forgive the tautology. Moreover, encouragement is not the fulfillment of one's long-standing promises, but something that was not intended in the plans before the child did something well or when about this matter (assignment) There was a speech.
A good dad keeps his promises. If you've already promised something, then no football match or inviting friends to a pub will prevent you from fulfilling your promise. And anyway, a good dad doesn't prefer beer, friends, or football to his kids. And if the pope refuses to do something or fulfill it, or even promise to fulfill it, then he must explain in a calm way why it cannot be done.
A good dad worries about the health of his children. He takes them to the hospital, takes their temperature if necessary, buys medicines and knows how to give the drug to the child himself. A good dad knows how to provide first aid for very high fever, fractures and other injuries and emergencies. A good dad will always check if his children are asleep before going to bed.
A good dad will never make scandals with his mom in front of the kids. He will not insult his mother in front of the children or allow the children to do what their mother forbade. Any parenting policy is initially coordinated with the mother and is never done in front of the children.
A good dad always takes his kids to the park or into the woods without a bottle of alcohol. In the park or in the woods or by the sea, he plays with the children or does something else with them. And of course, any good dad always has his flaws. ebiteua.com